Do you have a genuine desire to help people? Are you looking for an area of law where you can see the direct impact you have on people’s lives? Family law is comprised of many different areas, all of which involve solving problems that families have in order to help them. While divorce law may be practiced separately, it is a subset of family law. Some of the issues family law attorneys may deal with are:
- Adoption
- Alimony
- Child support
- Child custody
- Divorce
- Equitable distribution
- Guardianship
- Prenuptial agreements
- Restraining orders
- Separation
Education and Background:
Take as many family law classes as you can, and then start work for a law firm that specializes in family law while you are still in law school. Volunteering with non-profits that provide family law related services may also be helpful to secure a job in this area, especially if you are still in high school or an undergraduate program but know you want to do family law. Once you become a family lawyer, you may want to network with others in your field. Joining
the American Bar Association’s Section of Family Law may help you network with other people in this practice area as well as provide you with valuable resources. You may also want to consider looking into the
International Society of Family Law,
American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, or the
International Academy of Family Lawyers. Additionally, the
National Academy of Family Law Attorneys provides helpful resources to look through, and each year it awards the best family law attorneys in each state with an honorable “Top 10” mention. If you want to connect with the best family law attorneys in your state, that’s the
resource you need.
Many people don’t realize the extent to which numbers come into play in family law. If you enjoy looking through records and bank statements and are a skilled organizer, you might like this area of law. Backgrounds in accounting or finance could even translate well into this area of law.
Getting a job:
Family law requires a high degree of trust. You are much more likely to get a job with a small firm that specializes in family law than a large firm that just has one or two people working in this area. The law varies a lot by state, and clients like to know that their family lawyer has spent years dealing with local cases just like theirs. Luckily, there’s an abundance of small firms practicing family law in almost every city and town in the US. This is a “safe” area of law that will never go away and has steady business. Once you start working as a family law attorney, however, you will find that there is a great deal of local competition. You may struggle more to find clients than to find a job.
In addition to working at a small law firm, you might find work with a nonprofit legal services organization or with the government.
Average salary:
At the time this was written, the average salary for a family law attorney was $71,587. Although significantly lower than other areas of law, this is typically not an area a lawyer practices for the money but because they enjoy it.
Would you like this practice area?
Strengths/Weaknesses: One of the most important skills you must possess is being a strong listener. If you are good at connecting with others and building interpersonal relationships, you will be a great family law attorney! If you are the type of person whose friends always come to you to discuss their problems, realize that it is because they trust you, which is exactly the kind of personality you need to have to become a family law attorney! Being able to maintain an even temperament and remain calm in stressful situations is essential to this area of law. Your friends likely describe you as “compassionate” and a “communicator” if you are well suited to family law.
Likes/Dislikes: Do you hate drama, dealing with difficult people, and listening to people talk about their feelings? You probably shouldn’t go into family law in that case. If you like working with families, solving problems, and taking on challenging emotional situations, this might be a good area for you to practice.
Consider whether these articles by Turco Legal interest you:
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Family Law Attorney Spotlight:
Shannon Rand is a divorce and family law attorney for
Turco Legal. She is an excellent communicator who is extremely talented at handling emotionally stressful situations.
Shannon’s Interview
Q: How long have you been a lawyer?
A: 20 years
Q: Where did you go to law school?
A: Northeastern University School of Law
Q: In what practice area(s) do you practice? If more than one, what’s the percentage of each?
A: Family Law 100%. Previously: Child Support, Domestic Violence Family Law, Disability Law and Medical Malpractice.
Q: What size is your firm?
A: Small
Q: Describe an average day at work…
A: Multiple meetings whether in person or on the phone; strategizing; preparing correspondence to clients and opposing counsel; drafting agreements.
Q: Do you deal with difficult/emotional people?
A: Yes
Q: What makes your day-to-day work different from that in other practice areas?
A: There is a lot of personal interaction with clients. It is a lot of problem solving and negotiating.
Q: How many hours a week do you typically work?
A: 40-50
Q: What do you like most about your job/practice area?
A: The positive work environment in the office and the team mentality.
Q: What do you like least about your job/practice area?
A: Unreasonable clients that are indecisive. I also do not like judges that take advantage of wearing the robe and speak condescendingly to litigants and attorneys.
Q: You would be a happy and successful lawyer in this practice area if you…
A: …are sociable, like helping people, are good at public speaking, and are a problem solver.
Q: What advice would you give students interested in learning more about being a lawyer in your practice area?
A: Family law is very fact driven and depends a lot on the judge assigned to the case. Learn as much as possible about the judges’ preferences and leanings before you decide on a strategy for your case.
Q: What other comments do you have to add about your practice area?
A: Because it is a highly emotional time for people, if you are not a people person, this is not the area of law for you.
Conclusion:
It takes a certain type of person to be a family lawyer – compassionate, good at listening, and skilled at handling dramatic and emotional situations. This is not the most lucrative area of law, but at the end of the day, you can walk away knowing you truly helped families solve their problems.